For the past few days, very busy attending a funeral of my cousin.. She the daughter of my dad's brother... She was diagnose with leukemia a few months ago... she had to suffer the pain of the illness but she slways live on with an optimistic mind in hope of getting a suitable bone marrow... Still remember how she cycles to our house during the late afternoons as a form of exercise... She did managed to find a bone marrow donor 1 and 1/2 mths ago, and did the transplant sucessfully but the happiness did not last long... her body rejects it causing her to lose her life !! :( So she passed away on last sunday... The whole ceremony is filled with youngster cause she only 29 years old... According to the tradition, her parents and all other elders are not allowed to send her off... due to the different generation.... "白发人送黑发人" so we yongster had to do our part...


Haiz... after the whole practice ends... I really felt the importance of life... When one does not take good care of himself/herself, He/She not only cause harm to himself/herself, they will also hurt those who love them badly... Really feel it when her parents, siblings, and boyfriend cried over the whole night for her... Wish she had forgotten all the pain she had suffered, sadness to leave her parents and leave happily toward heaven !! Please pray for her... :(

Life is so FRAgIle !! It could be all over in a second time... Our lives are like flower vases... All of us start out with a nice, colorful, beautiful flower vase... some small while some big... Over the years, some vases still remain as beautiful as ever, however.. they are some... broken or chipped... But no matter how bad the condition... we sure still can polish it up... making it as beautiful as ever... Treasure our life and never give it up !!!


For my friends hope all of you will take very good care of yourselves cause I won't want to be upset for you... at least not so soon... hahaz... No matter how broken or chipped you are... Be sure I be there to mend you up !!! :)


Gone mending... :s